Entries by Becky

How to Be the Quarterback for Your Own Ideas

If there’s one thing about me that you’d never guess in a million years, it’s that I play in a co-ed touch football league, and have for years. I can’t believe it myself. I’ve never been much of an organized sports person, and the memories I have of playing in my youth consist of long […]

Holiday Fix: Swap out bad questions for good ones

One of the things you likely dread (loathe, hate) about the holidays is not so much seeing the family, but fielding any number of triggering questions that set you on your heels, flare your defenses, and bring your blood to the boiling point. And that’s because sitting down across from relatives who haven’t seen you […]

Why you shouldn’t start with your big idea

A few weeks ago, I took a small group of brilliant professionals away from their homes and families and deep into the Pennsylvania woods for three days. They asked to go, of course. Why? So they could go off their grid, and plug into a different grid altogether: The one that powers their creativity and […]

On the Verge of an A-Ha Moment

How is it that one moment you can just be sitting there, chewing your fingernail and then, a split second later, things just click? An idea or thought springs forth with such clarity it’s astonishing. How did I not see that before? Things go from foggy to clear, from flat to three dimensional, from black […]

What It Really Means to Be Authentic (and How to Know If You Are)

We all say we want to be authentic. What does that even mean, though? We seem to think it means “likable” and “down to earth”—which is why we want to be perceived that way. But in fact, authenticity isn’t necessarily good or bad; it’s consistent. It’s real. You can be authentically warm and funny. And […]

Make Your Talk a Ticket, Not a Brochure

Would you rather be handed a brochure… or a ticket? On balance, their material value is the same. In fact, brochures are more expensive to create and produce than a ticket (usually). And yet the inherent value couldn’t be more different. Brochures (most of them) give you a bunch of information about things you could […]

The Real Reason You Don’t Feel Fulfilled

If you’re like many women, you pride yourself on setting other people at ease. On making clients, colleagues, partners, friends, children feel comfortable, making them feel heard, smoothing over any awkward bits or hiccups of tension. But when you prioritize everyone’s comfort a lot of other work doesn’t get done. Namely, yours. If there’s one […]