Today is my birthday. October 9th. It falls during the preliminary days of autumn when you don’t know whether to wear shorts or pack a sweater. The day before Columbus Day. And, in grammar school, marked the beginning of Fire Prevention Week, during which local firemen would come to Our Lady of the Blessed Sacrament […]

Hobbies Are for Losers

Hobbies are for losers. I say this because the people who are in it to win it, to do something real, something big, something life changing, don't call it a hobby; they call it their life. Of course our lives consist of things that we do…

How Your Dealbreakers Are Getting in the Way

You've got dealbreakers. We all do. But what should be just a few hard-and-fast, values-driven rules about who you will and will not associate with, let alone date, has gotten a little out of hand. Curly hair? Dealbreaker. Have kids? Dealbreaker.…
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Falling Short of Your Resolutions? 3 Ways You're Going Wrong

I'd like to welcome guest blogger and friend Brett Blumenthal, a wellness expert and coach, and bestselling author of A Whole New You: Six Steps to Ignite Change for Your Best Life (Dec 2012) 52 Small Changes: One Year to a Happier, Healthier…

The End of Courtship? It's Not Dead, Just Different

So you read the NYT piece The End of Courtship, and it's hitting a nerve: OMG! Dating is dead! I knew it! I'll never find anyone! If your next step was going to be to email me the article with a series of exasperated question marks, don't…

How Jury Duty Has Turned Me Into a Bitch on Wheels

Jury duty should be humbling: You must do your civic duty, after all. You are reminded that, unfortunately, no, you do not have a choice in the matter. It's one of the few snags of living with freedom and justice for all--someone's gotta serve…